Ep. 98 - What You Don’t Know Is Holding You Back - Here’s How a Coach Can Help
A surprise trip to Melbourne orchestrated by my partner for my birthday reignited a sense of youthful exuberance and passion for life that had been dormant within me for a while. As we revisited the city where we once roamed freely, exploring its vibrant streets, I couldn't help but reflect on the person I've become compared to who I once was. This journey of self-discovery, fuelled by curiosity, has been exhilarating.
In Melbourne, I rediscovered my love for observing the world around me, striking a balance between introversion and extroversion. People-watching became a cherished pastime, offering glimpses into the lives and emotions of others. This fascination extends to my interactions with clients as a coach, where I aim to listen, observe, and understand without imposing my own biases.
A pivotal lesson I've learned is the importance of timing in communication, both personally and professionally. Recognising when to speak up and when to remain silent requires emotional intelligence and intuition. While some may perceive my occasional reticence as contradictory, I trust my instincts to guide me towards the most effective approach.
In the corporate world, hierarchical structures often hinder genuine connection and understanding. Taking a moment to truly see and assess the emotional state of others before engaging in conversation can foster a more productive and empathetic environment.
Ultimately, speaking up is not always about asserting oneself; it's about choosing the right moment for dialogue and action. Sometimes, silence speaks volumes, signalling a deeper understanding of the complexities of human interaction and emotional dynamics.
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