Ep. 137 - The Silent Career Killer - Why Being "Too Nice" Holds You Back (and What to Do Instead)
Ever walked out of a meeting feeling invisible? Frustrated that no one took your idea seriously? The truth is, being nice isn’t the problem - it’s the belief that being nice will get you ahead. Spoiler alert: It won’t.
In this episode, Rhiannon breaks down the difference between being liked and being respected - and why only one will get you promoted, paid, and positioned as a leader.
You’ll learn:
✅ How people-pleasing is silently sabotaging your career
✅ The cost of prioritising others' comfort over your own influence
✅ How to set firm yet professional boundaries that demand respect
✅ Why strategic assertiveness is your key to authority - without losing your kindness or integrity
If you're constantly saying "yes" when you're overloaded, avoiding tough conversations, or downplaying your ideas, you’re playing small. Leadership isn’t about being the most agreeable person in the room - it’s about being seen as competent, capable, and confident.
Rhiannon also covers how to shift your mindset, deliver feedback that actually helps people grow, and make decisions based on what’s right - not just what’s popular.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign to bet on yourself, this is it. Stop hesitating. Start leading. Fill out this Career Confidence Quiz today.
